I read with much interest between Joanne's and Becky's postings. Let me offer my two cents worth. Hahaha..
In essence, there is no difference in what they are saying. Indeed, both of them are emphasizing the need for relationships to be formed and bonds to be built. Building a relationship is not something that happens overnight. It is a long process, sometimes even painful when misunderstanding occur. Think about it, your best friend didn't become your best friend overnight. Its not as if met a person for one day and he/she became your 'bestie' the next day. (I learnt a new word, so i'm gonna use it).
As a youth group, we definitely have much bonds established within us. And that is because we have a common purpose and a common goal. We have also spent much time and effort in nurturing these bonds. Remember youth camp and your accountability partners? How about going out to dinner or playing sport? All these are events for us to bond together. And i must say, i throughly enjoy being with all of you. It makes me feel young again. Haha.. We really miss the older youth in our youth service. And we would love for you to come and join us. :)
So, the need to build relationships clearly established, what they are differing in is over how to build the relationship. Becky is suggesting that visitation is the way to go. Joanne is suggesting the use of technology to build relationships. Both are right. Both methods must be employed. There is no hard and fast rule here. Remember, building relationships take time and is a constant process. What the children need to feel here is a sense of belonging, that someone is actually here to take care of them, and they know that they can run somewhere for help when they need to.
Let's face it. Being a kid from the community isn't easy. Especially in the neighborhood where most of our kids come from. If you're been out visitation before, you'll know that its a pretty rough place. I admit, I very blessed. I have my own room, own computer, etc. And i've had this since I was very young. But really, when I look at these children, I realize that I have alot to give. I realize how much God has blessed me. But, these kids aren't even asking for material stuff, they are asking for someone to support them. Many of our MKC kids have problems which you and I cannot even begin to imagine.
Fact of the matter is this, whether or not they come for MKC is a secondary issue. What matters more is that we are here to show them the love of Christ. We want to let them know that God loves them and that they are so special to Jesus. Unfortunately, with many of our community kids, technology is something which they are unable to afford. Some however, are contactable via SMS. But, many are not. By us visiting them is our way of showing that we are actually concerned for them. And we try to help in whatever way we can. Giving tuition is one practical example.
At the same time, I also understand that many people have constraints, as Joanne has rightly pointed out. The solution is not a clear cut one. Yes, we MUST PRAY - that, is not in doubt. Building bridges with the community however, is not limited to visitation. How about staying to chat with the children after MKC on Sunday? I have no solution either. But I do know this, we must do whatever we can. And we need to pray that God will show us strategies as to how to reach out to these children.
The establishment of Blk 32 will definitely be a potential avenue. Yet, we are going to need alot of manpower to run this centre. Ask yourself, 'do i want to make a impact for Christ in my generation?' If the answer is a resounding 'yes', then i encourage you, make yourself available.
OK.. I think i've written far too long already. Its worth more than two cents now. LOL.
Take care everyone,
Keep praying!
Samuel
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